Kia ora, I'm Alexander (he, him).

 

I am an individual and couples therapist located in Auckland, Aotearoa New Zealand. I also offer specialist psychosexual therapy.

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My passion for relational psychotherapy and counselling began while

teaching health education in my twenties. I was struck by how central relationships are to our experience of wellbeing, and yet how uncomfortable we can feel talking about them when things aren't great.

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Now in my 40s, I've come to realise the discomfort we experience in relationships doesn't necessarily ease with age - if anything, it can become more complex as adult life gets in the way.

 

While that feeling of being stuck is an invitation to become curious, we often turn to conflict or avoidance instead.

 

Feeling ill-equipped to face certain challenges is normal, as is that hesitation when considering doing something about it

 

And that is where I come in...